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keepcalm got a reaction from Abellve in How do you react to stares??????
There is so much wrong with this I can't even. A stranger grabbing you IS creepy and invasive, no matter why they are doing it, or the genders of either person. Fact.
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keepcalm reacted to Graeme in Hey everyone!
Welcome! @LadyGabe gave some solid advice there, but I'd also recommend looking at ways you can make the ideas you have a little more visually interesting. I'd suggest looking at traditional flash because a lot of those designs incorporate flags in interesting ways. There are hundreds of examples and variations on this, but here's one nice example that I found through Google. This is from Becca Genne-Bacon at Hand of Glory in Brooklyn:
Or you could look at other ideas entirely of how to represent the idea...can I suggest kangaroo fighting a beaver fighting a bowl of spaghetti?
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keepcalm reacted to TrixieFaux in How do you react to stares??????
And this right here indicates the bad influence she will have on her children who were born with the capacity to become open minded individuals. Maybe they still will. Some kids can overcome the harshness of their parents.
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keepcalm reacted to TrixieFaux in How do you react to stares??????
And back to the original topic: stares.
Now that I have blue hair & tattoos, I can't be sure what they're staring at...is it my hair, or is it the tattoos, or both? My solution: if it feels like someone is staring, look at them and smile. So far I've gotten several smiles and a couple of compliments back.
There was a group of three I could see out of the corner of my eye who seemed to be watching my every move and watched me go sit down at the beach Sunday. When I finally looked up at them, one of them apologized and said, "We love your tattoo," referring to the Horitomo.
I've had someone else ask if she could take a picture of my leg to show her boyfriend. Well sure! I also told her to google Horitomo and monmon cats. This cat, even in its scabby peeling phase is averaging at least one compliment from a stranger per day.
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keepcalm reacted to polliwog in How do you react to stares??????
This might be too political for this site? But here goes. In my opinion/experience, PUA culture is bad news for everybody involved. It looks like you still have some detoxing to do. Try thinking of your interactions with women as something other than transaction-based, to start. You also don't know what a person may have experienced to cause him or her to "lash out" at light touch from a stranger. I wish you luck.
Thanks to everybody on here for helping to keep this a good space for women, by the way...
Because I think we need a picture of something nice right about now, here's a backpiece by Forrest Cavacco that I'm currently drooling over:
Edit: sorry it's so huge...
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keepcalm got a reaction from Shaun1105 in How do you react to stares??????
There is so much wrong with this I can't even. A stranger grabbing you IS creepy and invasive, no matter why they are doing it, or the genders of either person. Fact.
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keepcalm got a reaction from CultExciter in How do you react to stares??????
Just as a heads up, at least in the U.S., I think you'll find a decent percentage of women view this as pushy.
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keepcalm got a reaction from Graeme in How do you react to stares??????
Just as a heads up, at least in the U.S., I think you'll find a decent percentage of women view this as pushy.
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keepcalm reacted to TrixieFaux in How do you react to stares??????
Men do not have to do the approaching, things have changed a little since the fifties.
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keepcalm got a reaction from tatB in How do you react to stares??????
Just as a heads up, at least in the U.S., I think you'll find a decent percentage of women view this as pushy.
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keepcalm got a reaction from Euchlid in Post awesome things you have been doing recently
It was definitely scary at first, and it's still scary, but I've pretty much just been doing bouldering so far, and you're never TOO far off the ground in bouldering, so I am slowly getting used to it. I might try to learn a bit about top-roping soon, though, because I've been on a couple of climbing dates with a cute Swede who is keen to teach me :cool:
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keepcalm got a reaction from Graeme in How do you react to stares??????
There is so much wrong with this I can't even. A stranger grabbing you IS creepy and invasive, no matter why they are doing it, or the genders of either person. Fact.
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keepcalm reacted to Breakme in How do you react to stares??????
I hate to jump on the bandwagon, but are you seriously for real? Touching of strangers no matter what gender you and they are is totally inappropriate. Having tattoos is not a valid excuse for this un-acceptable behaviour.
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keepcalm reacted to growltiger in How do you react to stares??????
I think you'll find it has EVERYTHING to do with him being a creep.
I can't be arsed to critique the rest of your post. Musn't engage with creeps on the internet (unless they are extremely attractive, then they cease to be a creep and instead become charming. Hmmm.... Can you post a face shot so that I can decide?)
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keepcalm got a reaction from idyllsend in Post awesome things you have been doing recently
It was definitely scary at first, and it's still scary, but I've pretty much just been doing bouldering so far, and you're never TOO far off the ground in bouldering, so I am slowly getting used to it. I might try to learn a bit about top-roping soon, though, because I've been on a couple of climbing dates with a cute Swede who is keen to teach me :cool:
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keepcalm reacted to idyllsend in Post awesome things you have been doing recently
Thanks! I hear you on upper body strength, I still can't do proper push-ups or unassisted pull ups. My dad is a climber (indoor/outdoor) and has tried to get me into it, but heights and myself don't mix too well.
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