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JAllen

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    JAllen reacted to CultExciter in Now this is the Santa I want to bring my kids to.....   
    Don't crush my dreams. :P
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    JAllen reacted to Graeme in Can't shake insecurity over loved ones' perceptions of [my] tattoos   
    For me, part of getting increasingly heavily tattooed is understanding and accepting that not everybody likes tattoos. It's tough when that negativity comes from your own family, but that's all part of what you take on by getting tattooed.
    For my part, my family has been more or less fine with it. I know my dad doesn't like my tattoos but we don't have a super close relationship so we've never talked about it. My mom always wants me to say that my latest tattoo is my last one, though I don't really see how it even matters at this point. She's coming more and more to accept that getting tattooed is just something that I do, but there are tough moments for sure. My parents were staying with us but were away visiting NYC during the Montreal convention a couple of years ago and they got back to the apartment just at the moment I got out of the shower the day after having my shin destroyed by Chad. My leg was super beat up and swollen and my mom saw it and immediately burst into tears about it. I guess a large part of that had to do with what @bongsau said earlier in this thread about our parents not wanting to see us in pain. At the same time, though this has never been said to my face, I know that some of my extended family has been pretty hostile about my tattoos. One of my uncles, a retired former career air force officer, a really straight-laced type, asked my mom flat-out why I look like a "goddamned biker" and have so many tattoos. I couldn't have asked for a better response from my mom. She told this uncle that I have so many tattoos because I like them. So yeah, she doesn't like that I have tattoos, and she has asked me what she did wrong as a mother to make me do something like this to myself, but when it comes down to it, she doesn't think I'm a bad person for it and has stuck up for me. And that's great with me.
    My in-laws don't know that either me or @Pugilist have tattoos at all. We see them in general a couple of times a month. It's all long-sleeved shirts and pants around them even during the hottest part of the summer, or hiding if they stop by unexpectedly. We say that they need to find out eventually, but if they do find out it's going to be a huge fight so it's best to just keep them covered. I think even when they do find out we're both tattooed, we'll still both keep them covered around them out of respect.
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    JAllen got a reaction from Swifty in Can't shake insecurity over loved ones' perceptions of [my] tattoos   
    Be confident, embrace who you are and show love no matter how anyone treats you.
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    JAllen got a reaction from polliwog in Can't shake insecurity over loved ones' perceptions of [my] tattoos   
    Be confident, embrace who you are and show love no matter how anyone treats you.
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    JAllen got a reaction from beez in Can't shake insecurity over loved ones' perceptions of [my] tattoos   
    Be confident, embrace who you are and show love no matter how anyone treats you.
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    JAllen got a reaction from 9Years in Can't shake insecurity over loved ones' perceptions of [my] tattoos   
    Be confident, embrace who you are and show love no matter how anyone treats you.
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    JAllen got a reaction from Graeme in Can't shake insecurity over loved ones' perceptions of [my] tattoos   
    Be confident, embrace who you are and show love no matter how anyone treats you.
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    JAllen got a reaction from keepcalm in Can't shake insecurity over loved ones' perceptions of [my] tattoos   
    Be confident, embrace who you are and show love no matter how anyone treats you.
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    JAllen reacted to SeeSea in New to Last Sparrow   
    Welcome! Do you have pictures to share? Cover it up with something you love.
    And, to cut to the chase, a panther.
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    JAllen got a reaction from cltattooing in Why skull figures?   
    Devil worship
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    JAllen reacted to Mick Weder in Punk/Oi//Crust/D-beat/Hardcore/Anarcho   
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    JAllen got a reaction from Shaun1105 in Why skull figures?   
    According to an overly excited drunk fellow who was admiring flash in the shop, "tattoos invented skulls"
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    JAllen reacted to Graeme in Why skull figures?   
    They keep wimps away.
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    JAllen reacted to Mick Weder in Why skull figures?   
    That, and drinking wine from the skulls of your enemies killed in battle
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    JAllen got a reaction from Graeme in Why skull figures?   
    Devil worship
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    JAllen got a reaction from 9Years in Why skull figures?   
    Devil worship
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    JAllen got a reaction from exume in Why skull figures?   
    Devil worship
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    JAllen reacted to hogg in Why skull figures?   
    Because everyone has a skull.
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    JAllen got a reaction from Reyeslv in Why skull figures?   
    According to an overly excited drunk fellow who was admiring flash in the shop, "tattoos invented skulls"
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    JAllen got a reaction from cltattooing in Why skull figures?   
    According to an overly excited drunk fellow who was admiring flash in the shop, "tattoos invented skulls"
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    JAllen got a reaction from gougetheeyes in Why skull figures?   
    According to an overly excited drunk fellow who was admiring flash in the shop, "tattoos invented skulls"
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    JAllen got a reaction from Graeme in Why skull figures?   
    According to an overly excited drunk fellow who was admiring flash in the shop, "tattoos invented skulls"
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    JAllen got a reaction from joakim urma in Why skull figures?   
    According to an overly excited drunk fellow who was admiring flash in the shop, "tattoos invented skulls"
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    JAllen reacted to CultExciter in Richmond Arts Festival 2014   
    I will most likely be at this Saturday/Sunday. So, yeah!
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    JAllen got a reaction from SeeSea in Why skull figures?   
    According to an overly excited drunk fellow who was admiring flash in the shop, "tattoos invented skulls"
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