Lalica

Thank you guys for your replies. I believe I can get used to it, I just get a little worried about the entire thing sometimes. There are some moments where I am completely okay with it, and others where I’m feeling remorse about how I simple I used to look before. 
 
I agree though. I think I would rather wait a bit and see how it heals rather than jump into any major decisions. But it’s good to know that there are options if I wanted to go that way!

Hello all!

About 3 weeks ago, I got my arm tattooed. I've been planning this one for a long time, and it's mostly a mix of my design and my artist's design. The meaning is kinda abstract -- just basically is something that reflects my identity; shows my love for embracing dreams (actual night-time REM dreams, which I always have vivid ones), and embracing the unknown from our earthly position (basically how we see constellations from earth, and I put the Big Dipper and Little Dipper to scale). Watercolor because I LOVE color even though I'm very tan. 
Anyways, this is where the anxiety began. I had planned to get this smaller to kind of mirror the other tattoo I have on my left arm. The artist did tell me it would need to be bigger. And of course, me being a person who's never regretted a tattoo before (I even have Ash & Pikachu from Pokemon Yellow on my ankle, totally silly) I went with it. I was like "Sure, let's make it bigger. It's going to be on the arm anyway!" and mostly, this was true, my other tattoo on my other arm I wish were bigger! So here we are. I'm a little horrified about how big it is. Everyone I talk to says it's wonderful and fits perfect. However, I'm just afraid for people to see it for some reason. I'm wearing longer sleeves than normal to cover it up and I'm just all around scared for people to see it and think of me differently. It's a big change and I'm struggling a bit.
I feel that I'm slowly accepting it, but sometimes I honestly think it's because I feel like it's too "dark" or too "black". Would it be a mistake to go to a laser tattoo removal specialist and request them to do about 3 sessions to "fade" the tattoo to be a little bit less noticeable? Is that a thing that people do? Would it help me feel better about it being so BAM there? Or is this just me trying to adjust to this change? Is it a good size? Would it even fade the way I'm envisioning? 

I've attached a picture below. This was the day that I got it. I can even attach one healed but it's almost identical. 
(I'm a 27 year old girl, if that helps any.)
 

Hello from Canada 🥰

Thanks 😊yes i have. Two birds i got 1 year ago, and the rest only one week ago - i’m a bit new when it comes to tattoos.🙈
But i am already thinking about full half sleeve (forearm), especially because i kinda don’t like the way these two look from the side 😕 any advice? (I wanted to post this question in a specific topic, but i am not able to..)
 

welcome!
You've got lots of options. Easy enough to incorporate even more flowers and patternwork/mandalas around what you've got now. 

Thanks 😊yes i have. Two birds i got 1 year ago, and the rest only one week ago - i’m a bit new when it comes to tattoos.🙈
But i am already thinking about full half sleeve (forearm), especially because i kinda don’t like the way these two look from the side 😕 any advice? (I wanted to post this question in a specific topic, but i am not able to..)
 

Thanks 😊yes i have. Two birds i got 1 year ago, and the rest only one week ago - i’m a bit new when it comes to tattoos.🙈
But i am already thinking about full half sleeve (forearm), especially because i kinda don’t like the way these two look from the side 😕 any advice? (I wanted to post this question in a specific topic, but i am not able to..)
 

welcome ! do you have any tattoos ?

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Hey. My name is Urska, and i just found this amazing forum. 😊🙌🏼

Hey. My name is Urska, and i just found this amazing forum. 😊🙌🏼