My original post wasn't meant as a personal jab. If you hang around here for a little while, it seems to me that a user's body of posts answers all of these questions without a need to ask them explicitly--that is, I have a sense of how any given poster feels about these issues simply from having followed their contributions for a while. (But maybe I'm wrong.) So the survey format from a relative newcomer is a bit of a head-scratcher--like, why not tell us how you feel first? That's all.
hardest thing is to pretend its not there for a month - but thats what my advice is - give a month - 6 weeks - see what you got then
the original tattoo has a bit of a muted look to it imo - not my style but whatever