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    growltiger got a reaction from polliwog in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    The problem is that when you are in a vulnerable position, it is pretty difficult to speak up. Calling misogynistic behaviour out rarely ends with the perpetrator apologising and reflecting on what they've said/done. At best, you might get a patronising 'lighten up' type response, at worst an aggressive response.
    "Silence is consent" is victim-blaming bullshit. This is far more offensive than I think you realise, and is scarily close to blaming her for what clothes she was wearing.
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    growltiger got a reaction from irezumi in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    The problem is that when you are in a vulnerable position, it is pretty difficult to speak up. Calling misogynistic behaviour out rarely ends with the perpetrator apologising and reflecting on what they've said/done. At best, you might get a patronising 'lighten up' type response, at worst an aggressive response.
    "Silence is consent" is victim-blaming bullshit. This is far more offensive than I think you realise, and is scarily close to blaming her for what clothes she was wearing.
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    growltiger got a reaction from cltattooing in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    The problem is that when you are in a vulnerable position, it is pretty difficult to speak up. Calling misogynistic behaviour out rarely ends with the perpetrator apologising and reflecting on what they've said/done. At best, you might get a patronising 'lighten up' type response, at worst an aggressive response.
    "Silence is consent" is victim-blaming bullshit. This is far more offensive than I think you realise, and is scarily close to blaming her for what clothes she was wearing.
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    growltiger got a reaction from Ducky15568 in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    The problem is that when you are in a vulnerable position, it is pretty difficult to speak up. Calling misogynistic behaviour out rarely ends with the perpetrator apologising and reflecting on what they've said/done. At best, you might get a patronising 'lighten up' type response, at worst an aggressive response.
    "Silence is consent" is victim-blaming bullshit. This is far more offensive than I think you realise, and is scarily close to blaming her for what clothes she was wearing.
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    growltiger got a reaction from beez in Views on these tattooists please   
    Thanks so much everyone :D This will keep me quiet for quite some time!
    In all likelihood, it's going to be close to two years before I'm ready to get the epic tattoos. But I really do have a fancy for a little something much sooner. I've found that Frith Street often have walk-in slots and post their cancellations on Twitter so I'll keep an eye on it. Does anyone know of a good thread for ideas for one-shot small pieces (subject and/or location)? I've tried searching, but not come up with anything in particular.
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    growltiger got a reaction from AverageJer in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    The problem is that when you are in a vulnerable position, it is pretty difficult to speak up. Calling misogynistic behaviour out rarely ends with the perpetrator apologising and reflecting on what they've said/done. At best, you might get a patronising 'lighten up' type response, at worst an aggressive response.
    "Silence is consent" is victim-blaming bullshit. This is far more offensive than I think you realise, and is scarily close to blaming her for what clothes she was wearing.
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    growltiger got a reaction from tatB in Views on these tattooists please   
    Thanks so much everyone :D This will keep me quiet for quite some time!
    In all likelihood, it's going to be close to two years before I'm ready to get the epic tattoos. But I really do have a fancy for a little something much sooner. I've found that Frith Street often have walk-in slots and post their cancellations on Twitter so I'll keep an eye on it. Does anyone know of a good thread for ideas for one-shot small pieces (subject and/or location)? I've tried searching, but not come up with anything in particular.
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    growltiger got a reaction from Delicious in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    The problem is that when you are in a vulnerable position, it is pretty difficult to speak up. Calling misogynistic behaviour out rarely ends with the perpetrator apologising and reflecting on what they've said/done. At best, you might get a patronising 'lighten up' type response, at worst an aggressive response.
    "Silence is consent" is victim-blaming bullshit. This is far more offensive than I think you realise, and is scarily close to blaming her for what clothes she was wearing.
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    growltiger got a reaction from Zillah in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    The problem is that when you are in a vulnerable position, it is pretty difficult to speak up. Calling misogynistic behaviour out rarely ends with the perpetrator apologising and reflecting on what they've said/done. At best, you might get a patronising 'lighten up' type response, at worst an aggressive response.
    "Silence is consent" is victim-blaming bullshit. This is far more offensive than I think you realise, and is scarily close to blaming her for what clothes she was wearing.
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    growltiger got a reaction from spookysproul in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    The problem is that when you are in a vulnerable position, it is pretty difficult to speak up. Calling misogynistic behaviour out rarely ends with the perpetrator apologising and reflecting on what they've said/done. At best, you might get a patronising 'lighten up' type response, at worst an aggressive response.
    "Silence is consent" is victim-blaming bullshit. This is far more offensive than I think you realise, and is scarily close to blaming her for what clothes she was wearing.
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    growltiger reacted to exume in Views on these tattooists please   
    Going to Seven Doors is like using cheat codes
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    growltiger reacted to SnowyPlover in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    Silence is not consent! I can't believe I am debating this!
    Just because one person would say or do something, doesn't mean some else in a similar situation would or could - that's ridiculous! Everyone has different coping mechanisms to get through a uncomfortable and vulnerable situation. She did the best she could, she did not invite those comments, nor is she bound to school that jackass about proper behavior towards women.
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    growltiger reacted to SnowyPlover in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    Wow, just wow.
    In a professional shop, it would be very safe and reasonable to assume that perving on clients is never, ever appropriate and never, ever funny.
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    growltiger reacted to Zillah in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    Seriously, the dude just came out with it.
    Maybe. But I felt pretty damn intimidated, which doesn't help with the speaking up... and seriously? Shitty joke.
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    growltiger reacted to Pugilist in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    There is a pretty huge difference between engaging in off-colour humour in general and making uninvited sexual comments specifically about one's client, while you are quite literally controlling their movement (or lack thereof).
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    growltiger reacted to Russ in Views on these tattooists please   
    I like Claudia's work but I am not familiar with the other 2.
    Is it primarily a Female artist you looking for, If so have you considered Valerie Vargas at frith street? she is an awesome tattooer and a great person to boot! Sarah Carter also works there who is equally as good.
    If it's not necicerily a Female tattooer your looking for every one else there are great too.
    Valerie Vargas Tattoo
    http://instagram.com/sarah_carter_tattoo
    Frith Street Tattoo | World famous Frith street tattoo, custom tattoos situated in the heart of Soho, London. Walk ins welcome!
    I should point out I do not in any way work for Frith Street Tattoo, I just really enjoy getting tattooed there :D
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    growltiger got a reaction from Zillah in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    What an idiot, horrible man.
    I once had two full afternoon appointments booked with an artist guesting at a local studio. She cancelled the first one last minute. I turned up for the second one, got left in the waiting room for 2 hours before she even came up to say hello. She was pretty dismissive of me, of my idea... everything. She hadn't prepared anything in advance, then everything we discussed she sucked her teeth over. By the end of the afternoon we had a design that was nothing like what we'd talked about that really didn't work for me at all. The saving grace was that she had no more time to actually do the tattoo. She told me I'd have to fly out to Poland so she could do it, I politely declined (by email afterwards, I'm a coward and she was really quite fierce!). I felt so discouraged by the whole thing. I'm so glad I didn't go through with it, I would have so regretted it now!
    Nowhere near as bad as your story though Stacey Stormcloud!
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    growltiger got a reaction from motsimus in Uncomfortable/disempowering tattoo experiences   
    What an idiot, horrible man.
    I once had two full afternoon appointments booked with an artist guesting at a local studio. She cancelled the first one last minute. I turned up for the second one, got left in the waiting room for 2 hours before she even came up to say hello. She was pretty dismissive of me, of my idea... everything. She hadn't prepared anything in advance, then everything we discussed she sucked her teeth over. By the end of the afternoon we had a design that was nothing like what we'd talked about that really didn't work for me at all. The saving grace was that she had no more time to actually do the tattoo. She told me I'd have to fly out to Poland so she could do it, I politely declined (by email afterwards, I'm a coward and she was really quite fierce!). I felt so discouraged by the whole thing. I'm so glad I didn't go through with it, I would have so regretted it now!
    Nowhere near as bad as your story though Stacey Stormcloud!
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    growltiger reacted to DJDeepFried in Views on these tattooists please   
    Claudia's stuff is beautiful but I think @Valerie Vargas has to be part of this conversation too. Definitely seek out the artist of your dreams. You may have to wait or be persistent but you'll be happier in the long run than if you compromised or settled. And we are talking about fairly local artists for you here.
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    growltiger reacted to beez in Views on these tattooists please   
    Can I +1 on the Claudia love? Her stuff is soooo good!! And I love badass women in general (I love badass men too, but I'm a chick, so....) and getting tattooed by a badass woman has been an awesome experience for me.
    +1 badassery.
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    growltiger got a reaction from tatB in Views on these tattooists please   
    @Pugilist: You're right. I'm being all English and self-deprecating. It's a bad habit.
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    growltiger reacted to Pugilist in Fat people with tattoos: Your thoughts   
    Reasons I love getting tattooed as a "bigger" person:
    1) More space! Man, I can fit SO MANY MORE awesome big tattoos on my thighs than skinnier girls!
    2) A reminder that I gain nothing by feeling as though I am "at odds with" my body; tattoos reconnect me to this imperfect skin I live in and close the mind/body gap a bit.
    3) I often think about how some fat activist feminist critics comment that women, in particular, feel guilty for being fat because we "take up more space" in a society where women are expected to take up as little space as possible. I am constantly trying, in my life, to feel more at easy taking up space, being present, and not hiding - tattoos and their incredible presence obviously helps a lot with that.
    4) Tattoos are like an awesome treat/adornment for my body - a reminder that it deserves to be treated kindly.
    5) As others have said, tattoos have totally changed how I feel about parts of my body I am most insecure about; cellulite seems pretty insignificant when there's a huge colourful dragon over it.
    6) Basically, we all deserve to feel like we have agency over our bodies. Tattoos remind me of this. Some extra fat is like, only a small part of what my body is - it's a whole lot more than that, both physically and aesthetically, and it's mine to do what I please with.
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    growltiger reacted to Diehardonvhs in Views on these tattooists please   
    Claudia is absolutely fantastic - Just going by my personal preference I would choose her every single time out of those options. Her work is everything I would look for in a good tattoo, and I will absolutely be getting tattooed by her at some point!
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    growltiger reacted to HaydenRose in Views on these tattooists please   
    Claudia is very high on my dream tattoo list :) Her work is mind blowing. Not familiar with the other artists, but for London you can't go wrong with Frith Street.
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    growltiger reacted to Joe Shit in Views on these tattooists please   
    Claudia,Lauren,& Tracy,do beautiful work..A few more artist to check out.What are you thinking of getting done.
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